Saturday, September 21, 2013

What you need to know about Sexual Energy!

Many people who are on the spiritual path and learning about the Ascension process are confused about sexual energy and how best to use it. The ego and spirit have completely different views on how sexual energy should be used. In my previous articles on Ascension, I discussed how the new energies are bringing about changes in the way we relate to each other. Relationships based on the old patriarchal system are about having power over one another, co-dependency and non-equality. We are in a process of learning to balance our male and female energies. New relationships are all about growing together, equality and harmony, thus creating a spiritual bond with each other. New relationships focus on the heart space, where we honor each others spirits, whereas the old ways of relating focus on the head space servicing the lower self, or ego.

When the ego uses sexual energy in service of the lower self, it is only interested in pleasing itself on a physical level. The ego is controlled by lust, desires, physical sensations and emotions and it uses the physical body of the other person as an object for self-gratification. Spirit sees the other person first as a God and their body as a temple housing a God-like being, using sexuality for the glory of God. A good example to show how the ego abuses sexual energy is in the use of pornography and prostitution. We need to understand that there is nothing wrong with pleasure from a sexual point of view, but it is about how you use your sexual energy that matters. Think of how many people get moody, angry or irritable if their sexual needs are not met. Many people laugh at the thought of sexual addiction. Sexual addiction is no different to any other addiction, it’s not about the act of sex, but rather about the deeper unmet needs behind it. Like with any other addiction, it’s not about the substance, it’s about the unmet need behind the substance. Often addicts come off of one substance only to find that they become addicted to another “substance”. Unmet internal needs cannot be fulfilled from something outside ourselves, like substances, shopping, gambling or sex.

Sometimes people who are governed by their egos use different expressions to make their sexual requests appear more spiritual. They may claim that they are not going to have sex with you, but rather make love with you. When you operate from the ego and your intentions are not pure, it doesn’t matter what expression you use, that is simply semantics. It is your intention behind the sexual energy that you are using that makes the difference in the sexual act. I am certainly not saying that sex is not good. It is a healthy way to express ourselves and connects us to our physical bodies. We simply need to be more aware how and why we use this energy. When participating in sexual relationships, it is most important to honor one another and interact consciously. Sexual energy is very powerful energy. There are karmic bonds that are created with every person you have sex with. We are connected to each other by means of cords. Information flows through these cords and you can find yourself in situations where you are victimized by the energies flowing through these cords. If a partner is angry, depressed, lustful etc., you may find yourself starting to feel this way due to the transferring of energy. Practice discernment about whom you have sex with. Depending on your level of consciousness, you are either transferring negative energy of the lower self or loving energy of the higher self.

Sexual Energy Cords

Anytime we choose to engage in a casual sexual relationship with someone, whether it is for just one night, we create energy cords with that person. Having casual sex is not “bad”, it is simply an experience but it does have its consequences. One of the most powerful energies available to humans is sexual energy and in that moment where we physically connect our body with that of another person we are connecting at much deeper levels.

“Pay attention to whom you share your intimate energy with. Intimacy at this level intertwines your aural energy with the aural energy of the other person. These powerful connections, regardless of how insignificant you think they are, leave spiritual debris, particularly within people who do not practice any type of cleansing, physical, emotional or otherwise. The more you interact intimately with someone, the deeper the connection and the more of their aura is intertwined with yours. Imagine the confused aura of someone who sleeps with multiple people and carries around these multiple energies? What they may not realize is that others can feel that energy which can repel positive energy and attract negative energy into your life. I always say, never sleep with someone you wouldn’t want to be.”

Whatever is in the field of the other person, like their thoughts and unresolved emotions, can become entangled with your field. It is quite common for people to have casual sex while intoxicated with alcohol. This is a bigger problem since alcohol lowers the natural protection of the energy field and now they are even more vulnerable to absorbing discordant energies from the other person. Although they might never see each other again they will certainly continue to carry a thought form or some kind of unresolved emotional energy from the other person, then for no reason they might feel sad, angry or frustrated. These thoughts and emotions do not belong to them but because the energy is affecting them they will eventually identify with this pattern and continue to energize these mental and emotional states.

So if you ever have had casual sex with multiple partners it would be a very wise decision to clean those energies and cut the cords. If one night of casual sex can have this effect imagine what years of sexual intimacy with an ex-lover, partner or spouse could result in. Remember sex is neither “good” or “bad”, these are judgments and projections of beliefs. Sex is a powerful and pleasurable experience that it is wise to implement our discernment when we are choosing with whom to share it.

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