Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Love yourself!

The most important thing in life is to remain true to your self. Don’t let other’s expectations of you prevent you from being you. These individuals are only mirroring themselves onto you and they expect you to be just like them. We are all different and special and that’s how our Creator made us. Yes we all possess different traits and personalities. This makes us all so special and interesting. Imagine if we were all the same. Wouldn’t life and relationships be boring? Each person and relationship we encounter along our journey is a chance for our souls to learn and mature. Even in the most difficult relationships this is when you find your strength and wisdom. I have personally found that this is when I am closest to God for He gives me the insight and wisdom to handle such individuals.

When a person is rude or disrespectful to you the best thing for you to do is to walk away from them as you don’t need to be with that person. The more you entertain them with your energy and attention, the more they will become more overbearing or aggressive towards you. By remaining in their company you are fuelling their negative energy and you are submitting yourself to their own indulgence. You are signalling to them that you give them permission to be that way with you. You are also disrespecting your self by allowing the unpleasant encounter to continue. Instead, as I said, walk away and pray for them and at the same time visualising the Violet Flame of Fire surrounding them. You will be surprised how they will calm down and become peaceful and amiable.

Very often we come across a person who seems to have an irritating or overbearing energy that just doesn’t resonate with ours. Remember to remain pleasant, courteous and polite to them but keep your time short with them as they will drain your energy from you and that is not good for you.  You must endeavour to keep your own space clear from all unhealthy and negative energies.

Those who judge others and criticise others have a long way to go to becoming enlightened human beings. They have many lessons in their lives still to learn so be kind to them. Pray for them for they do need your prayers to help them to grow into beautiful souls.

Forgive those who hurt you and pray for them, for by doing this you are releasing them to our Creator and you are also releasing them from you.

Be patient, kind and respectful to everyone for they carry our Creator within them. Even those who hurt you have our dear Creator within them, it’s just that they haven’t discovered Him yet, so pray for these souls and ask God the Father to guide them and help them to discover Him within them.

Love yourself and walk in confidence knowing that God loves you more than you’ll ever know. You delight His heart when you are loving, kind, patient and pure hearted. What a wonderful thought that is, isn’t it?

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