That which God has joined together, let no man put
asunder.......
They say you often meet your destiny on the road you take to
avoid, and meeting our twin flames in this lifetime, is the right path to our
final destination......A divine relationship, is a journey of two souls who
belong to each other, the feelings are so intense, it’s the most incredible
love imaginable, even stronger than a soul mate, it can be so intense and
frightening though , that sometimes if they are not spiritually evolved, they
will bolt and run away from the connection, due to fear and then try to find
someone less intense to try having a relationship with, but in their core /
heart they know they belong only to each other, no one can come between the
relationship, together they are two beings but one soul. On the path of the
twin flame journey they will have many tests, hardships, pain, dreams, guidance
and deep revelations, sent to try and test them...
Many a time when the twins meet one another for ignition,
they are in a committed relationship with other people either a karmic or soul
mate relationship, it is better not to tamper or make any changes in this
existing relationship, as one should always honour the existing relationship,
and let it be as it is, if not it will create negative karma's, in the long
run.
After all it is the decision of the soul, which will preside
over the ego based mind, whether to stay or leave a previous commitment, which
will be ordained as per the divine timing, so have faith and trust in the
working of a greater force of the universe.
Plato has been quoted as saying ...“ When one of them meets
the other half, the actual half of themselves, the pair are lost in an amazement
of love, friendship and intimacy, and one will not be out of the others sight
even for a moment”.
When you meet your twin flame it’s like coming home, life
turns a full circle, and you are back were you belong, there is a nourishing
feeling for each other, just being in one another's company is like being in a
state of eternal bliss, as if coming out of a deep meditation, that's the very
reason they eagerly desire to be together in each other’s company for long
period of time, it is common to see them spend as much time as possible in each
other’s presence, because of the tremendous comfort level they feel together
ship , they long and crave for each other and constantly search for each other
subconsciously.
The twin flame relationship is based on unconditional love
for each other, with no strings attached, its more about spiritual love than
romantic love, we should not think about coming together in a traditional
romantic way, when we lay emphasis on romanticizing this relationship we put
limitation on this union, because romanticism is a very small part of this
dynamic relationship, In karmic and soul mate relationships , the attraction is
felt in the physical or mental level, were the mind and the heart play a major
role, which is not the case of twin flames, as the recognition is more on the
soul level in the beginning, gradually the depth of the relation is slowly
perceived by the mind through our intuitions, and external revelations, it’s a
slow process, but highly evolved souls will recognize the connection instantly,
the attraction to one another is instant, they do not have to go through the
rigmarole of twin flame relationship dynamics, but for those who are not
evolved, we as individuals have to balance our past karma's with other souls,
leave all our emotional baggage, and learn to love ourselves before we love
others. Only when we are complete and grow as individuals, will we ultimately
unite with our other half, the faster we learn and evolve there will be less
drama between us, and the faster this roller coaster relationship will smooth
itself out, and we will become more stable and mature enough to handle this
deep intense relationship.
The twin flame relation is an honest one, they will always
speak the truth in spite of the fact that the other may be hurt, the emotional
conflicts are unbearable, in order not to see the other suffer, the problem is
resolved as early as possible, because the twins know each other on a soul
level, and they will experience the same pain and agony, which will torment
them, their main intentions and actions are meant to protect each other, and to
accomplish their mission on earth, they will always be fair in their dealings,
with themselves and with others, faith and trust is a foundation of the
relationship, there is unconditional love, and a genuine respect and acceptance
of each other at all levels.
A very odd and a peculiar fact about soul mate as opposed to
the twin flame relationship is that, often times in a romantic soul mate
relationship you will find that the man or woman turns out to be the ideal of
your dreams, there is love at first sight, and common factors like same
background, education, same taste in music, food, similar hobbies will enhance
the relation further, he or she is your ideal mate, you will be finely tuned to
each other, but with your twin on the other hand it is a far cry from being
your ideal mate, they may not look like your dream date or make you swoon
immediately, in fact they are the exact opposite of you in every sense,
physically, mentally, emotionally, they will say or do things which will
trigger opposing reactions in you, and you keep wondering why they act in a way
which irritates and angers you, these negative emotions which we perceive in
our twin all exist in us, so they have to surface to purge the heart of age old
negative thoughts and emotional debris, from previous and present lifetimes /
birth, and what better person than your twin who will push all your buttons so
that you can see your mirror image clearly in them, remember this relation is
spurred on and inspired by differences, rather than similarities. But there are
cases of twins who have the same characteristic features and traits, each one
is unique and will experience this twin flame dynamics differently, no two relationships
are similar, or the sae ...only your own personal experience will guide your
path, and your soul will reveal the truth at the right time, with what has to
be done in your journey to oneness, but for the time being just be there with
your twin, and focus and love yourself, express yourself also and be creative
and try to learn new things, perhaps a new hobby like singing, music, dance,
painting, writing, photography or traveling to exotic places, anything under
the sun, that makes you happy, keep you in the right path, the path of love,
truth and joy.
Many times negative people and circumstances do come between
the twins, they will try to pull them apart, due to spite, jealousy, destroy
their credibility with malicious gossip, their main intention being to separate
the twins, because they do not comprehend the significance of this spiritual
lovers, this divine relation is in the protection of the almighty, anyone
coming between will have to face dire consequences, some kind of misfortune
will strike them, either financially , physically they may be struck with
illness, turmoil in their personal relations, one the close family members will
be inflicted, which will ultimately affect them, dreadful blunders in their
professional lives, accidents, any kind of unnatural incidents can occur in
their lives, the universe can go to any length to protect the twins from
external negative influence, the only ones who can disrupt this relation is the
twins themselves, and unfortunately if they do this, they will create a
physical barrier between themselves, ultimately separate out, which will
eventually take a toll on one of the sensitive twins, many a times leading to
terrible illness followed by death , it’s better to avoid being a part of an
ego based drama, and manipulate each other by using unfair means, after all we
have been doing this in all our previous incarnations, it’s not an easy task to
suddenly abandon our standard habits and way of life, and to conduct and reform
ourselves to a better state will take tremendous will power, prayers,
affirmations, and meditation with violet light energy.
Twin flame union is basically a higher calling; they have a
mission to be fulfilled in this realm, a service to the planet, changes to be
made in the age old social structure, service to mankind, you will find twins
working together, in medical, social, spiritual, and entertaining media,
working for the physical, emotional or spiritual upliftment of many destitute,
needy souls, sometimes they may just be there for each other, to balance all
their past karma's with one another and with other souls, and finally unite as
one soul.
If you keep your twin flame as your destiny in mind, every
moment in life will become opportunity for moving closer to the relationship,
unconditional love and genuine acceptance of one another's flaws,
imperfections, virtues, and strengths is a foundation for true twin flame
relation. If the twins are in their last birth, they are meant to be together,
no power on this earth can ever keep them apart, and once they unite they will
become a powerful potent force, they have no more lessons to learn, they have
great wealth of knowledge and experience, they have reached a state of
spiritual resonance, that will free them from reincarnation cycle, they can do
anything in this world as long as they are together. One thing is certain the
evolved twins are in the hands of God, the grip of that hand never loosens and
so the twins after they pass away from this realm will merge together and be
forever with the divine.
“That which God has joined will ultimately merge into him
for eternity”.........
~unknown~